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Family Log — Bloom's Daily Co-Parenting Record

A daily, low-effort record of who the kids were with and what happened — the foundation of every other admin task in co-parenting.

Last updated: 05/06/2026

The Family Log is the single most important habit Bloom encourages — a quiet, daily record of how family life actually played out. It takes about thirty seconds a day and is the difference between "I think we were at about 60/40 this year" and "here's the file."

Where to find it Open Bloom → tap **Family Log** in the main menu.

What you can record

Nightly care For every night, tap whichever parent the children slept with. That's it — one tap. Bloom uses the "midnight rule" (whoever has the children at midnight gets the night), which is how Services Australia counts care.

Care percentages, automatic As you log nights, Bloom tallies them and shows your rolling care percentage and care bracket (nil, regular, shared, equal, primary, above primary, sole). No spreadsheets, no maths.

Incidents and notes Anything worth remembering — a missed handover, a difficult conversation, a behaviour change, an injury, a refused visit. For each entry you can add: - Date and time (timestamped automatically) - Location - Witnesses - Photos - A plain, factual note

Communication keeping Save important messages or call summaries against the day they happened. Contemporaneous beats reconstructed every single time.

Why this matters

  • Child support assessments use care percentages. Wrong percentage → wrong payment.
  • Family Tax Benefit also uses care percentages — wrong inputs become a tax-time debt.
  • Parenting disputes and court rely on documentary evidence. A note written the day of carries far more weight than one written months later.
  • Your own memory. You'll stop carrying everything in your head.

How to use it well

  • Log nightly, the same way you'd brush your teeth — 30 seconds before bed.
  • Keep incident notes factual. No editorialising. "Refused handover at 5:42pm, no reason given" beats "He was being awful again."
  • Add photos for anything physical — injuries, property, the state of returned belongings.
  • Export when needed. Family Log entries export to PDF or CSV for lawyers, mediators or Services Australia.

Privacy

Your Family Log is private to your account. Bloom does not share it with the other parent, with Services Australia, or with anyone else unless you choose to export and send.

A note on this page

Features described here reflect current Bloom app functionality. Specifics, naming and layout may evolve as the app improves — always check the app itself for the most up-to-date experience.

About Bloom

Bloom is a private, judgment-free app for single parents and co-parents in Australia — a calm space to track family life, mood, custody schedules and the mental load. Start here.

Frequently asked questions

How long does logging a night take?
About one tap — five seconds. The Family Log is deliberately frictionless because consistency matters more than detail.
Can I record incidents with witnesses and location?
Yes. Every incident note can include date, time, location, witnesses, photos and a factual description.
Can I export my Family Log?
Yes — entries can be exported as PDF or CSV for lawyers, mediators, or Services Australia reviews.
Does the other parent see my Family Log?
No. Your Family Log is private to your account and never shared unless you choose to export and send.

Disclaimer: This guide is general information only — not legal, financial, medical, psychological or government advice. It is intended as a starting point for separated and co-parenting families in Australia. Every family situation is different, and what works for one household may not be suitable, safe or applicable to another. Payment rates, thresholds and rules change — always confirm details with Services Australia (Centrelink) and seek advice from a qualified professional (lawyer, accountant, mediator, counsellor or GP) before acting on anything you read here. Bloom Co-Parenting, its founders and contributors accept no liability for any decisions made based on this content. If there are safety, family violence or urgent welfare concerns, contact 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) or 000.